*Do you ever feel like you don't have everything it takes to run you out of your comfort zone?
*The evidence shows you're really pretty damn good at what you do?
Its lack of confidence syndrome, It's when you lack confidence in spite of the success you have had. The worst part about it is you believe that you are alone in these fears--that this problem is unique to you.
The truth is that confidence is lacking in large numbers across the ranks of professionals and high achieving executives everywhere.
Your lack of confidence often builds barriers that keep you away from taking the calculative risks associated with your growth. You will do only what is necessary to reach the boundary which is known as the COMFORT ZONE
Comfort zones come in all shapes and sizes, so for some, living within their comfort zone still allows for measured success and a steady income. But fear of trying outside the comfort zone keeps them away from their greatest potential.
Here are some ways to boost confidence and break through the barriers of your not-so-comfortable comfort zone
1. Recognize your strengths and successes. It's always easy to forget the significance of past successes. Make a list of your success stories--even if they are from your school days. Then note the qualities and skills that you tapped into to achieve your success. Concentrate on the positive and unique aspects of your success.
2. Do and make it your own way -- Do Read newsletters, social media updates, Blogs , articles and also follow them on social / professional sites and this is the best practice if it is aspiring, empowering you. But if your body and brain feel stressed, hit that "unsubscribe" button. and do it in your own way
3. Tell your story-- Join a group or organized meeting that will give you the opportunity to tell people what you do. As you share your story and begin to see a positive response you will gain confidence. Nothing beats eye contact and heads nodding to give you a shot of confidence to come out of your comfort zone.
4. Forget and Forgive yourself -- We all carry memories of past failures and disappointment. These little treasures are the classroom of life. Review those perceived failures and write down what you learned from them. How do you do things differently now? How have you grown? Release any related negative emotion by acknowledging the positive results you have garnered from these experiences.
5. Praise Yourself -- When people praise your success, attitude, or personal qualities, how do you feel? Embarrassed? Humbled? Anxious?
Do thoughts like, "it's really not a big deal" or "it's just common sense" go through your mind?
If so, then push yourself way out of your comfort zone by doing this little exercise. Ask friends and family to create a list of all of the things they admire about you. If possible, meet with them in person as they read their lists to you. Don't say a word, simply look them in the eye during this process and internalize what they have to say. You might just learn a few things about yourself .
These five lessons do not guarantee to put you out of your comfort zone but definitely will push you to think out of the box and you will try to do little more than your capacity.